Making your children responsible for their belongings
Organize Your Children and Save Your Sanity
by Gregory Thomas
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It may be difficult to relate saving money with organization, but the two terms really go hand in hand. If you are able to organize right down to the smallest detail, then not only will you save yourself countless panic headaches, but you will also have more time on your hands allowing yourself to be more productive and get more accomplished.
Organizing your own personal belongings can be a daunting task in itself. However, if you're also trying to take care of all your children's things, it can be an overwhelming, impossible task.
When children are old enough and capable, they have a responsibility to take care of their own belongings. This includes (but is not limited to) toys, clothes, bathroom items, sports equipment, and of course, school books and supplies. It should not be the parents' responsibility to clean their child's room, or pick up their wet towels off the bathroom floor. How is this teaching children to be responsible for their own belongings?
If we teach our children how to be organized, this will lead to a more productive and hopefully a more responsible child in school and at home. However take note, if you expect your children to be well organized, you must also do the same to provide a good example, or "model," for them. As the saying goes, "practice what you preach."
For the time being, we will focus on ideas to help organize your children's plethora of gadgets, toys, clothes, games, and whatever else may be piled up on the closet floor or under the bed.
Color Coordinate Everything
The most important idea to incorporate into your family lifestyle is to color coordinate everything. Regardless of how many children you have, assign each one a specific color, such as green, red, yellow, orange, etc.
The color you assign each of your children will go on every item that belongs to that child. You will need to get a permanent marker in each of your kid's colors so you can mark/dot each and every item they own.
Here's a list of the most common items with which you'll want to start out. Use this list as a starting point to help harvest ideas that are relevant in your family's lifestyle.
- bathroom utensils
- sports equipment
With their items, simply put a small colored dot/mark in an inconspicuous area. For example, dot the toe or heel of all socks; dot the collar tag of all shirts; dot the back of each puzzle piece; and purchase toothbrushes and towels in your child's assigned color.
Once everything is color coded, you can then quickly scan rooms and bathrooms and see which one of your little angels has left things out of place.
To quickly reinforce this new organization method, simply make the rule that if you find items haphazardly strewn about, you'll deduct 25 or 50 cents from their allowance. If that isn't relative, they can always earn additional work like washing a dish per item that is left out or "doggie clean-up duty." After a few times, your children will start picking up after themselves since they hate to lose money and play time, right?
Again, these are merely suggestions. Adapt and change these practices as you see fit.
Organizing Their Closet Space and Room
Let's face it, children are learning by trial and error unless they have someone or something to model after. So naturally, they are going to make their choices and decisions on what they think is best.
If your child hasn't had much success maintaining an organized closet, maybe it would be best to start from scratch. However, before you clear out his closet completely to start reorganizing, first observe what seems to be the problem area. Are their clothes scattered on the ground? Are toys out of place? What seems to be the messiest?
Each child will have different needs that have to be addressed in order to have a clean, organized closet/room. Just like you wouldn't ask a guitarist to play the guitar with only two strings, you can't expect a child to put his/her things away unless he or she has an actual "place" or container to put the stuff in.
Take the time to teach your children where their "stuff" goes. If they have trouble remembering, label the containers or areas as needed. You may need to buy some inexpensive containers. You can often find containers for a dollar at the 99-cent store or the Dollar Tree. (If you haven't been to one of these stores yet, you are missing out on a ton of deals!)
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Once you have organized, color coded, and explained the new procedures/laws that will now be enforced, have a "weekly review" time where you can sit down with your child(ren) for five to ten minutes. This would be the time when you go over what you liked throughout the week and areas they may still need to work a little bit on.
Keep in mind that children will need to be reminded about the procedures you expect them to follow, so don't get frustrated if they do not do a perfect job the first week or two. This is a process that may take some time to internalize, but once it's learned, your life, and your children's lives, will be much more fluid and organized.
Gregory Thomas is the editor of SavingSecrets.com. Get immediate access to over 500+ pages of effective money-saving articles, newsletters, and ebooks directly at their website.
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