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Frugal Living for Poor Singles

Eleven years ago, I found myself going through a divorce and suddenly single. I had a $1200 mortgage payment and a job making $10.50/hour. The first thing I did was find a roommate. It wasn't my preferred way of living, but it did add $6,000 to my yearly income, plus cut my utilities in half. Then, I looked for a better paying job. After a couple of years, I was able to drop the roommate and live alone again. As soon as I could, I started saving $100/month into a mutual fund, and I kept increasing my contribution rate as I was able to. That fund has over $80,000 now and will cover me in the worst of scenarios in case of job loss and possibly pay off my mortgage early. I've changed jobs three times since then, always looking for companies that offer better opportunities. I now make over four times what I did 10 years ago. It's possible to live well as a single, but it takes sacrifices at times. I still drive my 1987 Honda, for example. Be frugal and be proud!
Stephanie

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"Freedom" Cards

Being on a budget can feel a little stifling. You feel like you can't go out to eat or to a movie. My suggestion is to ask family/friends to give you gift cards as presents for birthdays or holidays. If you're like most people, you already have pretty much everything you actually need. So asking for the things you want and are trying to cut back on as gifts can really help to keep you on track with your budget. Ask for gift cards to the movies, fast food and gas! Ask for the books you've been wanting or a subscription to a magazine. These will not only help you out and make you happy, but it can be more affordable for your family and friends to get for you.
DeAnna D.

Comparing Deductions

For those of us who itemize deductions, I had a revelation this year. The IRS says that you can either compute an average deduction, or claim the actual expense you have in paying sales taxes on everything throughout the year. Normally I would choose their computation. However, this past year I happened to have gotten lazy and had just thrown every receipt I ever got into a folder. Since we are on a more limited budget now, I decided to add up all the sales tax we had paid and compare it to the IRS' average. Imagine my shock when it turned out that I would have cheated myself by more than $580 if I had taken the average. I will now save every receipt I get as documentation and take what I actually pay on sales tax each year.
Kamia

Discounts In Unexpected Places

Sometimes bargains can be found in unexpected places. In the past, it never used to occur to me to ask for a special deal when taking "adult education" classes. I was about to enroll my son in a course that would ordinarily cost $650. This time, I called up the school and asked whether there were scholarships available. To my surprise, the answer was yes, and they emailed me a very short and undemanding scholarship request form. We filled it in and asked for a scholarship based on his status as an unemployed young man who is presently not attending school, our own high medical bills, and the fact that he plans to build his career around the subject matter contained in the course. We got the scholarship, a 50% reduction in the price, and he will now be taking this class for $325! My motto has always been, "There's no harm in asking!"
Celeste L.

Kids' Car Rules

We have car rules for when traveling under one hour, one way. They include no radio, CDs, I-Pods, MP3s, DVDs, hand-held games or other electronic devices. People may bring books, toys (whatever they are willing to lose parts for) or crafts. Conversation is always welcome and it shows up. Friends coming with? No problem. They have to follow the car rules as well. We have solved the world's problems in our car. Everyone is on neutral ground. Our son returns from college and asks to run errands with us, so he can talk. I pick up our daughter from school, and she immediately tells me about her day. When life goes sour for them, they ask if we can go for a drive. We have driven ten hours straight, and no one thought about putting on the radio or stopping to buy batteries.
Jan F. in Minnesota

Skip a Week

One idea I have started using lately is to skip going to the store at least once a month. You get what you need but not as much of the other stuff that balloons the bill. This saves at least half of the cost of a trip to the store for that month.
Judy S.

Once-a-Month

About once a month, we check our local salvage store. I find great bargains. People think that when an item is sold in a salvage store, it is not safe to consume. I have found packages of cereal, dog food, pasta, etc. for sale at rock bottom prices simply because the package is a little crushed. The contents were fine, not damaged. My store charges $1.25 for a box of Rice-a-Roni. At the salvage store, I pay 59 cents simply because the box is a little unattractive.
Cindy C.

Looking for Frugal Friends

I live in a small town (pop. 1000) and felt like the lone thrifty person around for years. I started teaching classes on frugal living through our local community education. In ten years, I have met dozens of like-minded souls who have become friends, resources, and great support. Even if you don't feel called to teach, look around for classes, clubs, or groups that might meet.
Deb J.

Cash for Old Books

I've found a couple of websites that pay cash for used books. They are cash4books.net and bookemporium.com. Both are mainly for non-fiction books, old textbooks, technical manuals, etc. But I have also sold a few fiction books to them. You look up the ISBN on their sites to see if they are buying it, and if so, they will tell you the price that they would pay. Check both sites, as sometimes one site will buy a book and the other isn't interested, or they will offer different prices. Cash4books.net does not have a minimum order, and bookemporium.com requires a minimum $10 order. It is completely free. You print off a packing list to include in the box, as well as prepaid mailing label, so you don't have to pay any shipping charges either. You get an email when they receive your books, and about a week after that, you get your check in the mail! Cash4books even adds an extra 3% to your payment amount if you choose to use PayPal instead of them cutting you a check! So far, I've made about $100 and have been able to declutter some of my older books from my bookcases.
Marla B. in Holland, MI

Grime Spritzer

I keep a spray bottle of 2/3 white vinegar and 1/3 water next to the kitchen sink. When I have dishes or utensils that need extra scrubbing because of dried on grime, I simply spray with my spray bottle, wait a few minutes and wash as usual. No more elbow grease needed!
Jacqueline K.

I'm a Member

I work for a medium-sized law firm. My buddy was heading to the Verizon store to pay his bill and I tagged along. While there, I decided to purchase a cell phone holster for my mother (she is on my cell phone plan for savings purposes and I had recently convinced her to upgrade her phone for free). When the sales clerk was ringing up my purchase, he asked if I had a workplace discount. I assured him that I didn't and he asked where I worked. When I told him, he said, "Oh, I set up their account. You have a 10% discount." He applied this to my purchase and to my monthly statement. The monthly savings will pay for a little more than one cell phone bill per year! Perhaps others out there work for mid- to large-sized firms and are also unaware of discounts they are eligible for through their workplace. My compliments to the Verizon clerk for taking the time to check!
Zane

Quality Furniture for Less

One way to get good, even great quality furniture is auctions. You can find solid wood dining and living room sets from the 30s, 40s and 50s. Maybe Grandma has passed on and relatives don't want it (they would rather spend thousands for particle board). With a little Old English scratch polish, one has a beautiful set that still has value. You can resell at auction when tired of it.
H.

My Allowance Card

I like the idea of the reloadable gift card for spending money. I have done that with my "clothing allowance." Being an avid clothes shopper, I budget for the clothing I may want with whatever percentage that works for my budget. I put that on the reloadable card. When the clothing allowance is gone, it's gone until next time. This way, I can get a garment anytime from almost anywhere on the Internet or at the store or a catalogue. It goes on this budgeted gift card. This works for me! I don't feel like I've overspent, and I'm not guilty of bringing something new home without thinking about it first. My "wants" no longer interfere with my "needs."
C in South Carolina

Time for Forever

According to the United States Postal Service website, on May 12, 2008, postage is going up one cent on first class stamps. However, if you purchase stamps now at 41 cents with the "forever liberty bell" logo, you can send your mail after May 12 with them being honored for the 41 cents you already paid. It's time to stock up on stamps. A two-ounce letter will be 59 cents and postcards will be 27 cents. I don't believe there are forever stamps for anything but first class. Check with the post office or go to www.usps.com for more information. Those pennies add up as we all know! Skip the pretty picture stamps, get the forever stamps, and save!
Jacque Z. in Iowa

Cupa Joe

My husband leaves early for work and leaves the coffee pot on for me. He doesn't completely empty the pot with his morning coffee. So, there is usually about a cup and a half left there. When I get up, I just add two cups of fresh water and brew more. The coffee that has been in there is usually very strong from being heated so long and adding the fresh water is like brewing fresh coffee. So, it has really saved me money on not needing fresh grounds to be brewed. A scoop a day does add up.
Brenda

Movie Night

Don't want to pay for the movies? You can "enlarge" any movie with a computer projector. Most projectors will have plug-ins that will work with a DVD player or VCR. If you use a DVD or VCR, then you'll want to plug the sound into a set of speakers. If you use a laptop, then you can plug a set of external computer speakers into it. You can use a white wall to project the movie on and then show the movie for a party or large group.

Note that you can not charge a fee or advertise the "showing" because of copyright issues. Our local community does an outdoor movie. It is free to the public, but they have to pay a fee to use the film, equipment and movie rights. With some planning, you can enjoy a movie with a group of friends for maybe the cost of renting a movie.
Monica


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