by Shaunna Privratsky
Frugal Holiday Gift Ideas
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Do you start to panic when December arrives? Is money a constant worry as you scurry from store to store, never quite satisfied with the over-priced gifts you eventually buy? Do you dread those credit card bills that you'll probably be paying off until the 4th of July?
This year, you can change all that. You'll become one of those envied, organized shoppers who can spot a bargain from across the parking lot and has everything mailed the first week of December. You'll have a handle on your budget and know how much you can comfortably spend without breaking the bank.
The secret is simple. Start a gift box. A few years ago, I was in the same situation. The holidays stressed me out, and the money we spent was way out of control. Everything changed when I started a gift box. My mother-in-law and I shopped the after-Christmas sales. We picked up a plethora of gifts for the following Christmas at huge discounts. Elated with our bargains, I stored everything in a large plastic container.
The Gift Box, as it came to be known, isn't just for Christmas gifts anymore. I store birthday, anniversary, shower, secret pal and kids' party gifts. It's perfect for those last minute party invitations or a hostess gift when you're invited to dinner.
It is simple to create and maintain a gift box. Just keep your eyes open for inexpensive items that would make a great gift all through the year. Don't always think big. Smaller items can be combined to make a fine gift basket or package. I recently spotted a bin of discounted stationary gifts for only $1 each. A pretty notebook, matching envelopes and a gel pen made an appealing teacher appreciation gift and I'm sure it will be more useful than another "Greatest Teacher" mug.
When shopping ahead, take a moment to visualize whom the gift will go to. Sure, that leopard-print lampshade is a steal for only $3, but who will be the lucky recipient? Pass up a bargain if you can't use it.
Consider careful re-gifting. If you were given a lovely present but cannot use it, put it in the gift box. Just make sure the person who originally gave it to you won't be hurt or offended if you give it to someone else. Re-gifting is fine with large families, distant friends or acquaintances. Go ahead and send that eight-piece crystal decanter set to Aunt Bertha in Alaska. She'll be thrilled and you'll have one less gift to buy.
Keep in mind that it is not the price you pay, but the thought and spirit of giving that you put into gifts. Don't be sucked into the mentality that the more you spend on someone, the more you care for him or her.
Relentless advertising in the media causes most of the frenzy of holiday overspending. Ever notice that toy commercials double, if not triple, in the period between Halloween and December 25th? Teach your kids not to believe everything they see on television. I overheard my daughter telling my son, "Those toys don't really fly. They just show that on TV so you'll buy it, then it breaks." What a savvy shopper!
Don't overlook garage sales and thrift stores in your search for the perfect present. You can find gently-used items for that special someone at a fraction of the cost. Ceramics, glass, collectibles, artwork, home decor and kitchen gadgets are just a few ideas. Keep an open mind and you may find treasure in someone else's trash.
One of my favorite mugs was a Christmas gift from my best friend. It reads, "I love having you as a friend." On the back it continues, "It makes me look normal." We still laugh about it. She gleefully confessed that she only paid 10 cents at a second-hand shop.
Start planning your holidays sometime in November. Look over the gifts you've collected in your gift box and see if you need anything additional. Now you can budget where your money is going to go. Include everything like postage for mailing packages and cards, decorations, a tree, and expenses for traveling. Stick to your holiday budget and you'll be way ahead in the New Year.
Whether you start now or wait until the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season has settled into a bright New Year, you can start a gift box. Any container, shelf or cupboard will do. Whenever you spot a bargain for future gift giving, put it in your gift box. Choose each item with care and you'll be rewarded again and again with the ideal gift when you need it.
Take the Next Step:
- Do the holidays stress you out because your spending is way out of control? Then create and maintain a gift box throughout the year. Just keep your eyes open for inexpensive items that would make great gifts.
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