I have a problem. I have 2 baby showers to go to within the month and 2 birthdays to host next month. I already know what gifts I will be giving for the birthdays but I am stuck on what to give for baby shower gifts. I want to give thoughtful gifts, (one shower is for one of my best friends and the other is for a family member), but nothing that is going to cause me to go broke. Please help! I'm running out of time!
You don't need to break your piggy bank to do this, and it will buy you some time too. A snapshot style picture of the parents to be while they were dating and a recient one for the baby book, include other pictures of the family as well. This makes for a wonderful heirloom. If you find yourself with more than ten I would suggest putting them in a small inexpensive photo album (leave a few pages in the back blank for pictures at the shower) Be sure to have a camera handy while gifts are being opened.
If you're crafty a 7X7 piece of 14 count adida cloth (white or off white) and 1 skeen of embrodery floss. Back stitch the baby's name and bithdate, weight, and length. A 3X5 frame and card are given at the shower.
If you sew, some of the major pattern companies have some great baby gifts to make. My favorite is making a head roll for car seats and carriers. Its small, easy and quick to do. Since it takes so little material, you can probably find a remant large enough (big savings, there). Depending on your friends' tastes, you can either go with juvenile prints or a plainer, more "adult" fabric.
You can buy a Rubbermaid storage bin and put a few items in it along with a magazine to "Parents".... etc. Order a subcription now and you pay for it next month when the bill comes in. Since your budget is so tight this month. You can also go to a used book store and try and find a book for new mothers. I have always had a positive response to these very useful items for mothers.
Also, you can by items for a 1 year old, since the baby grows so fast, mothers like to find things later on that the child can use. Like socks!
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My favorite baby shower gift is to take a package of cloth diapers and wrap them around a baby bottle until they look like a birthday cake...I get a cake plate from a local Super Market bakery for free (the cardboard kind) and decorate the top with baby socks rolled into flowers... I hold the diapers together with baby safety pins...It comes out really cute...and even if the mom to be uses disposable diapers..the cloth ones have many uses with a new baby....It has always been a hit!
Saving bonds are always good, they also make good follow up gifts for birthdays of the child.
Buy a baby bath tub and fill it with little goodies such as all the bath necessities (soap, shampoo, powder, Desitin®, lotion etc). You can also include items such as baby nail kits, wash cloths and towels, a couple of outfits or pj's. Also diapers or a gift certificate to a Target or Walmart where formula or other needs can be purchased. Wrap the tub up with clear wrapping and decorate. Everything in the basket will always be used!
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An idea that is more personal is a nice heavy cardboard box with a lid or plastic box with lid. Decorate with fabric paints in bottles and write "baby's memories" on top. New moms love these to throw all those cards, letters, and other little items that come along that they want to save for baby.
Give the parents coupons for babysitting. If this is their first child, one free evening or weekend day will be plenty--you can always be more generous if you want. Make sure they use them by including two movie passes for a local theater. This won't cost a fortune. After our son was born, we were too out of it to think of where to go if we had a free evening, and we had a hard time asking friends to babysit--this gift would take care of both problems.
You will need two small blankets, a baby rattle, a balloon, and a marker. Blow up balloon to the size of a baby's head. Open blanket and place head on blanket. Tape or pin in place. If you pin, pin the knot, not the balloon. Fold the other blanket in a tube like shape. Wrap around head and cross ends to make arms. Pin in place. Now wrap your baby up bunting style. In hand tye rattle. Draw face on balloon. If you want to spend more money, you can put your baby's head on a sleeper stuffed with wash cloths. That way every thing you have used is useable.
The last two baby showers I attended, I gave an unusual gift which got lots of favorable comments... food! In the first case, I purchased a copy of a "quickie"-type cookbook like one I already owned and loved, then I tagged some of our family's favorites with post-its and put together a "care" packages of all of the ingredients for those few recipes. The most recent shower I attended, I put together a package of five convenience dinners (canned chow mein/instant rice/boxed fortune cookies, spaghetti/spaghetti sauce with meat/parmesan cheese/french bread mix, etc.) and several desserts (cheesecake mix, dessert bar mix, etc.) and grouped them in a big decorated box with tissue and a card explaining my greatest challenge when my babies were new was "having the time and energy to grocery shop and make dinner!" Both times I also threw in a package of newborn disposable diapers and some baby wipes. This "theme" can be as simple or as elaborate as one would like... Someone could volunteer to "Once-A-Month" (or "Once-A-WEEK") cook for the mom or maybe clean house and care for the baby for awhile so the new Mom can just rest! The basic idea is to provide the gift of time and less worry.
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Purchase a plastic over-the-door shoe holder and label pockets (usually 12 or so) to hold all those items you need close at hand or are so small they get lost. Use a permanent marker to label for cottonballs, Q-tips, nail clippers, combs, hair bows/bands, etc. You can also write the baby's name and add ribbons or stencils if you like. Budget permitting, you can fill it with the goodies.
If this person has a computer with a color printer, she could print out pages designed for "Memory Albums." This is basically a newer type of scrap book. I have seen some wonderfully done page designs, with places left for photos or other memorabilia. This is much more personal than a purchased baby book, and any number of pages can be designed and placed in a binder for the recipient. I've even collected otherwise unusable photos from my child's school year and made a complete page for each child in his class as an "end of year" goodie.
I usually watch for laundry basket sales. Buy a sturdy basket and watch for sales on baby items. I usually fill the basket with things most folks don't think about such as plastic security plugs for your outlets, door and drawer locks, box of dreft or snow. Also I watch for clothes sales of clothes that will fit the baby in a few months or sometime that year. The babys grow too fast and the mother ends up with a lot of new born size clothes not ever worn. You can spend as little or as much as you want. I have filled baskets with as little as $10.00 and as much as $25.00. Just takes a little time and keeping your eyes out everytime you go shopping.
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I made an inexpensive, handy baby shower gift for my daughter. I made a Mommy Manual. I downloaded a lot of "baby information" from websites (they have everything from prenatal care, what to expect in the delivery room, what to do when the baby comes home, and basic baby care), put it in an inexpensive binder sectioned by topic: prenatal, delivery, baby care, etc. Then, I simply made a pretty cover to slip into the front for the cover decoration. Mine simply said, "Official Mommy Manual for Rebecca" from Mom and the date. My grandson is two now, and she is still not only referring to the manual, but loaning it out to her friends!
As a third time mom, I can tell you that anything in white cotton (such as blankets) will feel wonderful and can be bleached--a huge plus! Babies are messy little people! A package of cotton birdseye weave (NOT prefolded) diapers are absolutely a lifesaver--I have used them as burp cloths, light blankets, to play peek-a-boo, as a sunshield, and even as a diaper in a pinch! Also, I enjoyed receiving baby supplies as gifts, such as disposable diapers, baby wipes, baby wash, Q-tips, baby tylenol, baby gas medicine, even formula, etc. A paperback Dr. Spock baby care book is great, especially for a first time mom. These are things that may not be glamorous but make life with a baby much easier.
New parents always love something personalized and handcrafted. For several baby showers, I've given a gift of personalized baby bottles and these have been a huge hit.
Buy a set or two of clear or clear colored plastic baby bottles (not the ones with designs pre printed on them). Three packs of these bottles are usually just a few dollars. You can paint on them with the fabric paints that come in the squeeze bottles with the writer tips. You can often find these on sale for under a dollar.
Many new parents will know the sex of their baby, and may even have a name picked out before shower time. I have personalized botles with the baby name or just with pictures and designs that corresponded with a theme the mom-to-be had already picked out. (a celestial theme, rainbows, balloons.. etc). Wrap the bottles in pretty tissue and a bit of ribbon.
The fabric paint does NOT come off, even in the dishwasher. I have some of these for my own baby and once the paint is dry these are practically indestructible, and SO cute!
I used to rack my brain trying to think of a gift for a child not even born yet and then had my own kids. At my first shower my sister gave me a basket of "me" things - bubble bath, a box of my favorite tea, coupons for baby-sitting, etc. All things that would give me a nice break when needed. I have since used this idea for the showers I have been invited to and have gotten not only a nice response from the other people invited but have gotten thank-you calls from the mom's each time they've used an item in the basket. People tend to get so excited about the new baby coming and mom gets ignored. Trust me, a little TLC in mom's direction goes a long way on a long day.
Lu Anne B.
If you sew, you can make a very easy baby quilt (nine squares)from scraps you probably already have. No time to quilt? Make a baby comforter, which is two pieces of material with batting inside, anchored by tufts of yard sewn here andthere across the comforter. You can also buy a very inexpensive baby one-piece garment or shirt and decorate it with lace, ribbons or fabric paint. I went to a shower where the person had decorated a matching shirt, little shoes and socks and it was very cute.
Group gifts are great! My family went in together to buy a car seat for us, and friends pooled their money and bought 8 weeks of diaper service. Many of these people also got a little something that was personal - a favorite book, a little blanket, teething ring, but probably ended up spending lots less than if they had each purchased gifts independently. I'm always happy to go in with others on a large purchases. It saves me time and ensures the recipient is getting something they really want or need. If you know others who are attending the shower, you could contact them ahead of time and see if they're interested in giving a group gift.
Themes can be helpful. A practical theme that I have used in the past is "safety". I bought a bottle of ipecac syrup (for use in case of ingestion of certain poisons) and all the little baby-proofing gadgets they sell for outlets and cupboards. This is admittedly not the most fun gift to give, but it's certainly appreciated, not likely to be duplicated, and can literally save a life.
Reviewed April 2018
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